african proverb 4

I think that it is better to be loved then feared  because when you are feared people would not want to be around you or even look at you. When you are loved you are going to have lots of friends  who like you cause of you and not because they are scared of you. when they are scared of you they are only hanging around with you because they fear you. So it would be better for people to just like for who you are and not just being around you because you told them to hang around you cause there scared of you.

You could use this in your every day life because in real life there are going to be some times when you are going to want someone to be your friend and you might think that they are going to want to be. so you might use fear as another option.  When you do that they are not going to really like you for who your are.